Friday, September 28, 2012

Amniocentesis - Week 18


In my case, the most complicated part of the amniocentesis was not the actual procedure or the recovery, it was trying to get an appointment.

Booking
1. I called the hospital the Monday after the CHEO meeting. I was told my paperwork had not arrived yet. I had to wait a couple days.
2. After getting the doctor to fax my blood type, I called to make sure they had received it because I was getting dangerously close to 19 weeks and really, you don't want to keep delaying getting this test.
3. You still can't book at this point unfortunately because now all your paperwork and blood type has to go through "protocol"...whatever that means.
4. EVENTUALLY you get to speak to someone and book your appointment. In my case, I was offered yesterday (Thursday Sept 27) at the Civic or the following Monday at the General. I took the earliest one. They give you the room details and tell you to have a full bladder and your health card.

At the Hospital 

After struggling to find a parking spot at the Civic, we still managed to get to our destination on time.
The lady at the receiving desk asked us a few questions and directed us to a waiting room that had a lot of pink and brass. The wait was actually pretty long, or maybe it just felt that way because of my full bladder.

The Civic hospital isn't very nice and every room feels like it needs some sort of makeover and reorganization. The room we were brought in was no exception. Medical equipment on the radiator, crooked shelves, lots of pastels...didn't exactly scream out "we are a modern health establishment!" . The staff was very nice though.

I had to change into a gown. I didn't expect that.  I realized when I was in the dinky bathroom changing I didn't really know how to put one on...haha. I figured it out but I still don't get how the heck someone is supposed to tie the back up by themselves. Anyhow, I walked out with my warm socks and robe and laid flat on the table feeling a little vulnerable.

They started with a thorough ultrasound, which was another surprise. I thought all they would check was where the baby was and find the best spot to extract the fluid but instead they did a lot of measurements and checked for markers. Casper was not photogenic this time. I had no clue what we were looking at on the screen. We did see arms and legs and his heart as well as his little spinal cord which was good. His heart rate was 136 before the amnio.

Once the technician is done she preps the tools for the procedure and calls the doctor in. I was very lucky he was available because apparently that can sometimes take a while and at that point, my bladder was getting really impatient. He comes in, friendly and relaxed which is fantastic. After routine questions and me signing a document stating I understand the risks, he gets to it.

My belly is painted with iodine and cloth sheets are placed around the area where he will puncture to avoid infections. The ultrasound is covered in a latex glove (clever) and he pokes at where he intends to place the needle with his finger. You can see where it is on the screen because you see an indent. All is clear, it's far away from Casper. Then he reaches out and dammit, I get a glimpse of the needle....which OK...isn't THAT scary because it's super thin but it's long. Quite long. At this point I shield my eyes because when I don't curiosity gets the best of me and I take peeks.

Oh, side note, I thought it was kind of funny because while I was lying there blocking my eyes with my arm so that I couldn't see the needle, I realized from the ultrasound Casper was also turned towards my back, away from the needle. Aw...I can't help but feel I had something to do with that. "look away little one, look away!"

The rest of this description is a mix of what I felt and what Francis saw. It doesn't hurt that much when the needle goes in but it is a weird feeling. You feel it move through layers until at some point there are no nerves so you only feel the needle in your skin/abs. It's an annoying burn mostly. I tried to stay still and concentrate on my breathing which worked well. It feels like the needle is in for a while but it was probably just a couple minutes. Then apparently he connects it to this tube and container and sucks out a LOT of amniotic fluid. I'm happy I didn't see that part. You don't feel it but Francis told me later he was slightly freaked out by the amount in the tube. The doctor then tells you to take a deep breath and he takes out the needle in one swift movement.

Then it feels weird. It's like there's still something there plus a heavy object on your belly. I told the technician. She said it was a common sensation. I got a glimpse of the liquid, which was pretty fascinating. It basically looks like very pale urine, which reminded me that yippee, I could finally pee again.

Before I can do so though, the technician does another quick ultrasound to make sure everything is ok. Casper's heartbeat was holding steady at 136bpm.

She explained the sample would be sent to CHEO at noon and told me I could go change but if I felt dizzy I could like back down. I felt fine so we just left.

Recovery

I had no period-like cramping, spotting or slow leak of fluid going on. The only thing that is slowing me down is the sting in my abs when I accidentally use them a bit too much, and the fear of sneezing. Lying down on the side where the needle went in is uncomfortable but really, the pain is very minor. I would say it is much like the aftermath of a blood sample sting.

I was told to rest for a couple days so that's what I'm doing.... reluctantly.

Mom and Dad have been great and spent a big part of the day with me because Francis had a golf tournament to attend. Mom spoiled me as usual, bringing heaps of food and sweeping floors while I was napping.  Dad sanded down some extra shelving for my pantry. Aw..parents.

Would I recommend amnio to others?

Yes. The test has a very bad reputation that, in my opinion, is not warranted.
I understand the IPS results are not exact but that is exactly why they follow it up by offering the amnio diganostic test. If fear is the issue, hopefully this post has made you feel a bit better about the test.
If your indecision is based on morals, then just do what feels right for you.

What now?

We wait, likely until mid next week, for the results.  Based on the results, we may have a decision to make. We are not worrying too much about that now and focusing on remaining positive. We are excited to find out if it's a boy or girl.

In other news...



My doctor didn't seem to concerned about my weight gain . She said my belly is growing well and the baby's heart is fine so not to worry.

So far my stats are (no laughing allowed):
Pre-preg: 127 pounds
End of first Trimester: 128 pounds
19 weeks: 130 pounds.

I already cleared out all my summer clothing from my closet and replace it with clothing a size bigger and that I didn't mind stretching out a bit.

Baby Stuff 


We bought a brand new BOB Revolution stroller on kijiji.  It came with the car seat adapter, a snack tray and a handlebar console. Yippee! I can't wait to take the little one for walks in the country.


I'll update as soon as we get results.


Friday, September 21, 2012

CHEO Genetic Counseling - 18 Weeks


First of all, I hadn't been in CHEO in a while. It's such a...human...building. You walk in and the mixture of happiness and hope and the sadness and worry that fills the air is pretty crazy. 

As promised, here are the answers given to us:
  • How frequent are the cases of negative positives or positive negatives for the amnio diagnostic test?
    None that she was aware of. The only thing that could happen is that the sample taken will fail to produce enough cells to produce a proper result. In this case, they would know and advise us.
  • What factors come into play into being identified as positive in the IPS?  (weight on form, precision of due date, do levels in blood change daily, does sex of baby come into play)
    The weight and dates do have an impact. However, my dates were entered correctly. She confirmed levels change on a day to day basis but normally the blood taken is a good indication of what is going. In my case, no individual results of protein/hormones was worrisome. It was slight variations for each which added up to my higher risk. When one level is extremely off the charts, they tend to be more worried.
  • Is it too late to redo a blood test to compare?
    It's not so much that it's too late but that if we got two different results, which one would they trust? Would they say "oh you are fine now" knowing that a certain day you tested positive? That would be risky.
  • At what point was something noticed? Was the ultrasound and first blood sample ok?
    The ultrasound was fine. The NT scan measured at 2.1 which is slightly above average but still below the "worry-zone" of 3 mm.
  • What are the real risks of the procedure? What are CHEO's track records for miscarriage percentages following an amnio?
    1/400.
  • What genetic anomalies do they test?
    Trisomy 13, 18, 21, Spina Bofida and abnormalities in the XY chromosomes.
  • Should we wait until the 20 week ultrasound before doing an amnio?
    The ultrasound could detect markers but can't confirm either way. Some mothers have 100% normal ultrasounds but give birth to a child with Down Syndrome. Some have a lot of markers present but give birth to a child without the genetic anomalies.
  • Is it possible to book then cancel?
    They are not against that practice but would rather we wait until we are sure as it is a short wait. The procedure is normally done in the morning and the results are known 2-3 days later. If for some reason the "quick result" test is not conclusive, they need to send the samples out for a more complex test, which takes 3 weeks and checks for more anomalies.
  • What kind of Symptoms can I expect? If there are issues, where do I go / who do I call?
    Slight cramping and spotting can be expected. Most women only get a tiny bit of cramping and no blood. In the event the cramping worsens, head to the ER. Most miscarriages happen 2-3 days after so it's not like I would need to worry for weeks after.
So, what will we do now that we have the information?

The risk of doing the amnio is not as high as most claim. Having peace of mind for the next five months would also be great. Knowing this, and especially that we are not sure what we would do if the results came back positives, I think it is worth it for us to go through with the procedure. 

Am I a bit scared? Yeah sure. I'm scared I'll be the 1/400 that ends up having a miscarriage and then feeling horrible about it. I'm scared the results will be positive and what that will mean. But being scared is not a good reason for not knowing the facts. I would rather make an informed decision than close my eyes and hope for the best.

What's next?
The genetic counselling will give you all the necessary info to book your appointment (which happens in a hospital). I will call on Monday to book. You don't need much except your health card and a proof of your blood type, which you can get from your doctor easily. I will get that at my appointment next Tuesday.

Thanks to all of those who have told us they are behind us no matter what we choose. Your support is appreciated.

Wednesday, September 19, 2012

You suck , IPS results! - 18 weeks




IPS Test results 

Our results unfortunately came back at 1:110 (considered positive) for the the Down Syndrome portion of the test. Now, I know, 1:110 is still a 99.1% everything is fine and that seems extremely low and  a reason to be happy. However, you can't help but worry about being 5 times more at risk than the average person. Additionally, only 2-3% of women who get tested for IPS have a positive result so I wasn't comfortable just setting this aside. We were offered the amniocentesis diagnostic test.  I researched...

The pros are obvious: peace of mind, ability to make a good decision based on facts, preparation for what is to come
The cons are few but still scary: possibility of a miscarriage (approx 1/200), massive needle stuck in the belly...

There is a lot of conflicting information out there...most of it muddled by moral and faith based statements.  I eventually stopped reading and figured the best way forward would be to talk to professionals. We booked a meeting at CHEO with the genetics councillor to help up decide if we should go ahead with the amniocentesis test or not.

SO.

Tomorrow we are going armed with a series of questions. Hopefully posting these will help someone else in the future. I'll make sure to update you on the answers soon.
  • How frequent are the cases of negative positives or positive negatives for the amnio diagnostic test?
  • What factors come into play into being identified as positive in the IPS?  (weight on form, precision of due date, do levels in blood change daily, does sex of baby come into play)
  • Is it too late to redo a blood test to compare?
  • At what point was something noticed? Was the ultrasound and first blood sample ok?
  • What are the real risks of the procedure? What are CHEO's track records for miscarriage percentages following an amnio? 
  • What genetic anomalies do they test?
  • Should we wait until the 20 week ultrasound before doing an amnio?
  • Is it possible to book then cancel? 
  • What kind of Symptoms can I expect? If there are issues, where do I go / who do I call?
PS: If you google amniocentesis, DON'T click on the images tab. GAH!

Mommy Update

I lost my phone. I washed a whole bag of golf balls. I tried to pay for clothing at Value Village with a Subway card. If anyone is bored, it's quite entertaining to follow me around until I have a brain fail. People who take themselves too seriously really shouldn't have kids.

Google is my BFF. I google all symptoms and all weirdness going on. It's fantastic because no matter what, you will find someone with the same experience. Cloudy pee? Check. Vision crappy? Check. Lately I've been googling about weight gain because well, I only gained 2 pounds and the pregnancy sites suggest I should be at 8 or so by now. BUT...I'm not the only one apparently so high five to google for bringing all us crazy paranoid moms together.


Maternity Clothing


Did I mention I lost my phone? Oh yeah. I did. So...there goes my personal money. I knew that maternity clothing was somewhat of a luxury and decided to save there. I'm happy to report that 3-4 trips to Value Village and 50 bucks later, I think I'll be ok for the next 4 months. Past that point,  I have decided to just wear a snuggie and avoid human interaction. 

I love that store. The slightly odd customers,  the weird smells emanating from the furniture section, the cool finds in the record boxes, and best of all, at this time of year, the dressed up cashiers! I'm pretty sure the only thing that beats purchasing a pair of jeans for 8 bucks is to hand that bill to a disco clown with bunny ears.

House Stuff

Momma Steph is panicking because nesting instincts are slowly kicking in (besides come on, we've been in building mode for TWO YEARS now) and the house isn't ready. There's firewood to gather and siding to finish and a front deck to complete and the bath needs to be tiled and the nursery floor needs to be varnished and trim work needs to be done...and...and...poor Francis. He hears this everyday.